left tumblr voluntarily, i have no idea how this place works
This is such an important idea to me. I might have transitioned much earlier if I didn't think you had to be traumatized by your body and gender in order to be valid in doing so.
Yes, the standard narrative is 'I always knew' and it's like, what if you don't know? What if you're kinda slow, like I was? I was drawing and writing about nonbinary characters for years before I started to think it meant something
I like this thinking, everyone should be anyone/anything they wanna be bar none. You are always valid~
I saw some people I knew and other trans people online and always thought "well I'm not in some agonizing mental pain about my junk so I guess I'm not." Took having my own apartment/solitude and room to listen to myself.
if someone would have told me you could get a sweet pair of jugs from just taking pills (i'm a flavor of intersex so E hit me like a truck) i woulda been on that shit 20 years ago
Nothing wrong with being the feminine guy. <3 But you've got to be true to yourself.
