Genuinely the way cis guys online talk about femboys is indistinguishable from tr*p jokes from the 2000s-2010s. Deeply uncomfortable everytime I'm in an online discussion and start seeing the most unwarranted sexual humor, but since the cis guy's idea of a femboy occupies a space between man and woman in their mind it's okay to make the most misogynistic and transphobic statements imaginable. And of course this sexual fetishization is completely tolerated but if you call it out, whether as a GNC man or as a transfem, it then immediately becomes clear that they have no respect for this idea beyond a sex object