you realize those aren't the only options, and anatomy doesn't imply anything in particular about what kind of sex we have, right? right?
Reminds me of when I was getting an sti screening and they asked "what are the gender identities of your partners" and I responded "we put our penises inside each other's butts if that's what you were wondering"
Nowadays my standard procedure is to show up with a list of tests that I would like and they've been pretty good about following it no questions asked
The weird thing about the idea that ideally you should ask the question you actually care about rather than asking a "traditional" question that you "assume" you can "guess" the answer to the "actual" question from is this realization that no one really seems to know what their "actual" question even is.
