Yeah, idk if there's a perfect platform for everyone; this place definitely has a vibe that entertains a particular audience, and you either like that or you don't. It's not necessarily a failing of the platform itself or the people running it, nor of the people who leave. Cohost, like a lot of places, is a work in progress, and the people who reside here are works in progress as well.
We're all trying to wean ourselves from the toxicity of other platforms. A lot of that remains. I've seen dogpiles on here go down, same as Twitter or tumblr. I'd like to think that as time goes on, we'll get better at such things, but it's difficult to say when there's a lot of, y'know... everything going on in the world today.