because it just feels... wrong. i don't want incentive to use sites i've already used and strongly disliked. cohost was the one good social media site to use in the years i used it, and no other site is like it. every other site is poisoned by algorithms, numbers-chasing and anti-intellectual behavior.
i don't want to give that incentive to use those sites to you, either. i understand that most people need those sites to sell their wares and make enough money to keep yourself above water, and i salute you as you walk into war-torn battlegrounds fought by the dumbest motherfuckers on the internet.
every other site is self-harm. i can't in good faith engage in that. that's why i'm not posting my 'find me elsewhere links.'
if you add me on discord that's cool, but im most comfortable in servers rather than one on one conversation. so we'll probably drift apart anyway.
i will be but a tiny sliver in your memory to eventually be forgotten. or maybe i won't. i don't know. but i'm fine with being forgotten. it's a part of living life. you meet cool people, life sets you on different paths, you drift apart. sometimes you remember them, sometimes you don't. it's how it goes.
the only site i'm willing to link is my twitch, found below. i don't stream often, or on any schedule. but maybe every once in a while i stream while you're able to watch, and you pop in and we get to catch up a bit in the chat. it'd be fun to reminisce. but that's... kind of it.