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Riparian buffer restoration,
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an image of a typical Pacific North West temperate rainforest, with ferns and other greenery growing on a mossy, fallen-tree-covered forest floor. The colors of the image are oddly tinted, as the photo was taken in 1973.


"any pronouns" but mild preferences shaped by like... novelty.
I don't have anything against he/him inherently, but as a hairy muscular masc, I get he/him'ed a lot. Nothing to write home about when it happens.
Someone they/thems me, ok, often happens when ppl know I am non binary, often I get he-they'ed, even if introduced as any pronouns user. Certain comfort level. ppl see how I look and assume he-him, find out im not a cis guy and go Ok, I can do they/them.

because of this I love she/her. Because so much of what I am is opposed to what a "she/her" is "supposed" to be. when someone she/hers me confidently and with meaning, its like Yeah, you Get It.

quite like neos just because they're fun to see pop up. As I dont really care for/against any, feel free to use me to practice neos.


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in reply to @osedax's post:

one thing i always try to do is if i Know what somebody's assigned gender is (like if they've told me) i usually try to use the pronouns that i know they haven't heard as often. because if somebody is amab then they've been hearing he/him their entire life and in progressive spaces most people just use they/them for people a solid 80% of the time, so i imagine it would be nice to hear a little more she/her now and then. to mix it up some.

i like to mix up peoples pronouns pretty often if they use multiple sets (unless they've explicitly told me not to) but it's something i like to keep in mind. if i don't know what their assigned gender was then i'll try to use the ones that i just don't hear others use for them very often too

idk if any of that makes sense to anybody but me though. i have a very specific way of doing things more often than not XP

oh yeah thats good vibes. Everyone who is "any pronouns" goes about it in a diff way, but a lot of us sure do love it when ppl give us something different. some variety. some Fun !! and it's probably good practice imo, changing up pronouns and such, routine practice breaking down the Gender Boxes in your head