i Need to be more vocal about incontinence on this webbed site. Incontinence is such a maligned thing to experience. you're not supposed to talk about it. It is a thing for babies, for the elderly. It is a kink thing. It is gross. It is not for the public.
to treat is as mundane, everyday, something my Disabled Body Does and is not a moral failing, is not normal. people who are disabled and end up pissing and shitting themselves because of it, we are not supposed to talk about this part of us. diaper, catheter, stoma? gross, get out of our sight, never leave the house, freak. do not exist, you wear unmentionable bodily processes on the outside.











