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may death never stop you
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in reply to @pastellexists's post:
Think of all the stuff a regular adult human has to do on a daily to weekly basis. You already got cleaning the house and preparing food. I don't know if childcare is relevant. Grocery shopping comes to mind. But also never underestimate the value of just being available to talk to.
My experience is that even the smallest favors can be greatly helpful during grief. Whatever you can do will matter.
And if you're worried about missing stuff, try asking "what do you need to get done (today/tomorrow/this week)?" and offering to help with anything you can think of a way to help with.
thank you so much. this is basically what ive been doing already, but its nice to hear that im essentially doing it "right."