i like cohost because its the only place i kind of want to openly engage with my kink shit in regards to like, openly talking about it with other people/allowing other people to engage/play/tease with it versus just dropping pics and then leaving. with the latter i still enjoy what i do but i rarely want to "play" with anyone if that makes sense
idk i just. my interests are not beyond understanding (even my most specific cartoony shit) bc im a generally simple bitch, but i feel like i require a very specific handling/framing of vibes and situations etc that i just do not ever want to talk to anyone about on places like twitter or tumblr etc. bluesky has not been Terrible but as for comfort w/ engaging with others abt it and zero stress/shame for being a particular kink bitch, cohost has been rejuvenating
on here i have had little experience with having to explain why im wired the way i am on this slice and it really does carry that energy of mid aughts smaller forums and hubs that had plenty of people on them but were still generally secluded off from the "mass audience" socmed shit we're harassed with every damn day now
any time i explain my nonsense its typically of my own volition and it doesn't feel like i have to explain as a Chore because someone cant get behind the concept of a fetish and has made it my problem
turns out having a place to just play around that isnt privy to the eyes of someone who only knows how to speak in gifs from The Office chiming in with "what is this πππ" under a slew of PUSSY IN BIO bots
anyways i like it here. thanks for letting me have my little side place to be a weird cartoony bitch
