maybe this is ill-thought-out of me to say but like, if you see like. petty fandom callouts and discourse and shit, consider telling the poster to fuck off / touch grass. someone fucking has to.
if we want this place to not be as awful a hate spiral hyperplex as tumblr can be, then i think we have to be proactive in our intolerance for that garbage
and yeah i realise there's a lot of edge cases and i haven't covered my ass at all here but like, there's a lot of people to disagree with on the internet and you don't have to ruin all their days. maybe just let your friends know. idk i'm just tired of the hate mill and i don't want to see it grow here