aaaaaaaa my doctor's office has started adding preferred names to their mailing addresses, but in the following format:
Holly "Cliff" Jerrison
no no no no this is so much worse
if you think the mail won't get delivered right without the deadname then just put that, god knows I see it often enough. or if you want to respect preferred names do that and figure the address and last name is enough to get it delivered. but in Today's Fraught Political Climate please for the love of god do not put what amounts to "TRANS PERSON LIVES HERE" on the outside of the envelope
