I don't really wanna go into the nitty gritty details, but basically.
This place is really good. It's a Good Website. I like it a lot, I want it to be around for a long time.
When I see people here behaving in a, not mindful way towards the staff, it genuinely makes me upset. I get it, it's usually not malicious, and sometimes is in combination with a lack of understanding of the technical details, which isn't really expected of anyone just using a website. I myself have not a single pebble I can cast in the "shitting on software people make" judgement because I bitch about software a LOT, but here it really is just four people doin' what they can without working themselves into the ground and I wish people would put more respect to that sometimes.
The site largely works as intended and continues to improve over time, be patient and kind and it will continue in that direction. Simple as.