The Internet is not designed or set up to support a useful social network.
Consider the origins, what the Internet is actually designed for: Sites connecting to sites. Historically you would have a site that was basically one computer, maybe a PDP-11 for a smaller site up to a CDC 6600 supercomputer - the early arpanet maps were basically shitloads of DEC machines and a smaller number of Control Data and UNIVACs with a handful of IBMs for good measure - with a bunch of Honeywell 316s functioning as gateways and routers. Each site was its own network, its own community. Everyone worked from terminals on the big box. And that's what the Internet was designed for. Email is an obvious example of how that works in practice, and in that environment all this shit makes sense. Your local social network was mainly the people on the same site and you might just talk to them via a local bulletin board or in class or at the coffee shop.
Look at the Fediverse, it is designed on exactly those lines. Each Masto instance models an arpanet site. But until and unless there's more physical and meaningful community both per site and between sites - until there is some cost to defederation in the same way there would have been if, say, Stanford decided they were mad at BBN and didn't want to talk to them, which would have been horrendously damaging to both sites - trying to build new services along this model isn't going to work. Conversely, a pure peer-to-peer system like the telephone network isn't how the Internet is structured. Building something like that without any server or centralized infrastructure is basically infeasible because it violates a ton of basic assumptions the Internet is built around.
Forums were a good compromise. So are sites like Cohost. The Fediverse in a different and more well-thought-out form could be a good way of bridging that history with what people want but only if we as a civilization were willing to change the way we think about these things.
...isn't this a problem with "The Web" and not "The Internet"?
remember NNTP? that was a better scheme for hosting communities than web pages, surely?
~Chara
