30, bi. trans indie dev, furry artist, writer, etc.

creator of Super Lesbian Animal RPG
https://slarpg.com

runs Thanks Ken Penders on Tumblr https://thankskenpenders.tumblr.com/


Ponett Gazette (new blog!)
ponett.dog/blog/

i did in fact make a bluesky account just in case i end up needing it, but the more i think about it the more i'm not sure i actually want another twitter. (i'm sure i'm preaching to the choir here.) i'm active on twitter because it's the site where people are. i can just make my little posts and be assured that people will see them, and i can follow a bunch of friends and artists who i otherwise wouldn't be able to keep up with, so i stick around

but it's such a truly awful place when you get down to it. and not even because of all the right wingers. people are just so fucking nasty over there all the time over the most trivial things. the for you algorithm massively prioritizes QRT dunks and random discourse because twitter knows that making you angry is the easiest way to drive engagement. i am exposed to so many bad takes from teenagers. people from the ages of like 16-22 are just constantly going in circles repeating the same arguments over video games and children's cartoons and whatnot and tearing each other apart over them. everything revolves around Takes, but the character limit prevents nuance. and even if you write out a thread to add context and nuance to an opinion people will still just QRT individual tweets to take them out of context

it's all so draining. i don't want to just move that experience over to another site with a smaller userbase

anyway, even if no social media platform or community is perfect, i'm thankful cohost exists as a meaningfully different alternative


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in reply to @ponett's post:

yeah that was kind of me realizing how little i actually liked using twitter when i moved over to bluesky. the relationship with the platform was basically strictly transactional.

even now with a much smaller userbase i'm actually kind of drawn more to how cohost does things.

I vaguely remember seeing commercials back in 2009-2010 advertising twitter which featured a guy posting about how he had a cheeseburger for dinner, and that was the total use of twitter in the commercial.

I like to think that means we've all slowly forgotten that twitter was never designed to be anything more than a place to post about the cheeseburger you had for dinner

yeah, I already decided long ago that anything that resembles twitter is already off my books. the culture is unbelievably toxic, with people looking to start shit at a moment's notice.
no thanks

I initially wanted to try bluesky but the more I realised "it's just twitter 2.0" the more I went "do I actually want to go back to that hellish cycle of Being Mad Online?"

"What if I just said no? What if I just...don't do the social media just because it's popular, and instead just be myself in a better place?"

Cohost for now is a much more chill place and while it feels a little empty, I actually like how peaceful it is where everyone is just kinda vibing in their own thing. It's such a breath of fresh air compared to the screaming aviary where it was critically-engineered to give me depression.