being trans is so funny dude i had to call spectrum to transfer my internet service to my new apartment and they asked for my name and i gave them my deadname because i thought that's what they had and they were like "oh the account is under cassandra lugo, are you related by any chance?" and i panicked and went "uhh that's my wife" and then they tried to get me to let them speak to my wife and i panicked and hung up
