this is a big mood. like, after experiencing all the varying circumstances of my dress and presentation that will make people say "sir" or "ma'am", I had to conclude that cis people are just completely out of their depth with gender.
Like, sorry you couldn't figure out that you should be saying "ma'am" but I'm wearing a skirt, girly boots and a floral patterned croptop over a tanktop that shows off my chest. This one is on you.
