Did a quick thing on Twitter maybe I’ll cross post it after a shower but honestly rpg Twitter isn’t ready to hear
“The ability to say ‘yo what the FUCK, that’s not cool, knock it off’ is itself a safety tool, and one that a lot of marginalized people are prohibited from accessing, so yeah safety tools ARE important in your friendly game”
I feel like a lot of people don't get how hard it can be to say "yo, what the fuck", too. Because while it might be obviously justified in hindsight, or from the outside looking in, it's a lot harder to see when you're the one who needs to say it. (This applies to more than just ttrpgs.)
What I'm trying to say is, try not to be afraid to say it, but also don't be too hard on yourself if you end up not saying it when maybe you should have.