Absolutely losing my mind. As the "man of the house" (only person with intentional facial hair and deep voice in my very trans household), I was granted the honour of interacting with our real estate agent. Picture a real estate agent, male, sharply dressed, early-50's, in a midlife crisis. That's probably pretty accurate. Now picture him, the absolute picture of polite curiosity, saying to me "three of you have one flag [nonbinary], but one of you has a different flag [trans]. What's up with that?"
