Damn, it sucks that cohost is shutting down. I know I didn't use it that much, but I was hoping maybe I could casually enjoy the website and have some fun interactions, using a site pseudonymously. It's sad that this place never got the chance to really take off because I feel like it had a lot to offer and really dialed back a lot of the things that made centralized social media terrible.
For better and for worse it's hard to discover people on this site. I never got to really develop a reason to stay here... I probably would have used the site more regularly. When a social media website is poorly adopted, I think it creates a slippery slope effect where more people refuse to adopt the site. I wonder if people will somehow come back to twitter, or more likely, go back to tumblr. Structurally, this website is a lot like tumblr, but the userbase is actually quite different. Even now, tumblr is an insanely hostile hell hole. It hasn't changed, so everyone here who is now deeply alienated by that tumblr culture might be hesitant.
I'm just sitting here reflecting on how to meet and grow closer to people online while still having a safe and mostly private presence. It feels like the older you get the harder it is to make friends and grow closer to others. I am a very ill person and developmentally handicapped so I live most of my life online.