i don't post much anyways, but I'm on tumblr (jusacat) and now also pillowfort (jusa) if you wanted to maybe actually see posts from me later

hello! Elysium here with some tips on how to grieve or mourn pretty much anything.

the first thing we keep in mind is this:
It's okay to grieve.
It's okay to feel angry, sad, scared, betrayed, or any other emotion. Everyone has their own ways on how to deal with grief.
second thing:
You aren't alone with your grief.
The cool thing about chost is that everyone is a community! everyone is united and everyone is together. Share your grief. You don't have to bear the burden alone. This also applies for any other kind of mourning- there are billions of people in the world. Someone out there will inevitably understand.
third thing:
It's a long, long process.
Pretty sure everyone here has heard of the grieving cycle. But it's not a straight line! Like I said, everybody mourns in their own way. And your way is as equally valid as anyone else's.

we're all here for each other now. let's support each other until the end. :)

I am 24 now.

Up until the last couple days, I felt good-ish. My mental health has been marginally better than usual, and I found a few things that I feel interested in.

Most importantly, I started to learn a lot more about computers and the web, until eventually, it felt like the world where I belonged, where I knew what I wanted and how to get it.

Still, the more of it I saw, the more it felt like a horrible place ruled by either greed or anger. Somehow, Cohost was an exception. Like home. Now, I am crying and blaming myself for under-utilizing it when I had it.

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Ps. Recently, I started learning Rust and trying to get into tinkering with PC hardware. Maybe, if I find where to go from here, I will finally have something to say

Pps. And I finally downloaded and started playing Signalis. Had to pirate it because I am from Russia, and it is blocked (banned?) here, and even if I could buy it, I would have barely had enough money on my name. Signalis is great, you should play it (please buy it if you can)

Does anyone know a good way to sync folders on Linux?
I mainly wanna sync a folder on my interal HDD with an external one. I have tried Unison, but the problem there, is that if I delete a file off the interal drive, it'll try to readd it during the sync (I can tell it not to move the files, but I need to do that every sync, and I also have manually removed deleted folders). What I want, is a way to set one folder as the parent, and one as the child, with the child altering to mirror the parent. That might already be a function of Unison that I overlooked. So, if you know, please tell me. Doesn't have to be a graphical app, I'd be fine with using the terminal.