I'm gonna be real I have no idea whether or not I'm attractive it's super hard to judge your own face right? and you can't even ask someone else because like 90% of the time theyll say you are just because it would be rude otherwise
It's funny cause my sibling actually does know theyre attractive because it like actively causes problems for them since they present fem guys flirt with them a lot even their male students get shy around them
But from my experience, girls don't really outwardly show their attraction so being a lesbian or straight guy it's way harder to know if people are actually attracted to you