and thinking about Andor e12 / amca's episode on it, how @ austin called attention to everyone wearing their finery for the funeral. got my brain bouncing a little with that tweet about "forget dressing in black, i want everyone to dress to slay at my funeral. look hot as shit or i ain't dyin" or whatever, im paraphrasing, and you're more online than me, you know which tweet i mean.
and that really kinda is what formal wear was supposed to be, wasn't/isn't it? like clothes to look hot af in? so why do all suits just make me look like a fatass?