ffxiv frontline is very give and take. some days you absolutely have a blast, have a team that does stuff really well and everything goes great... and then there's the days when someone makes a counter-call to yours that would be ok in a vacuum (go for the gold to win), if it wasn't for the current situation (one of the other teams is fighting for the cap that makes them win guaranteed, only real chance to stop them is an immediate pincer). it be like that sometimes.
but you just gotta roll with it. shit happens, it's all about having fun in the end!