My cisguy(?) friend is telling me what he would do if he was a trans man and I find it fascinating, when he talks about it it almost sounds like he wishes he was a trans man I wonder what that's about
I dont think I've ever met a person, other than actual trans men, who wanted to be a trans man
But the more he talks about it the more I'm thinking he wishes he was nonbinary but afab but masc presenting or maybe butch but he doesn't have the language for it
I dont want to say anything to him because he's extremely easily influenced but I wonder if I can introduce him to the idea of being trans or butch or nonbinary
Like he doesn't need to change anything about himself like the way he presents or the pronouns he uses but if he feels more comfortable calling himself butch that's perfectly fine
He did identify as a trans woman at one point and even started e but he changed his mind said he isn't but he actually still is on e I'm not sure if that counts as detransitioning or not lol but it's possible he still does feel trans fem but he feels confused because he's butch and thinks he can't be trans and still be masculine
He definitely has the most interesting relationship to gender of anyone I've ever met