just realised oversharing isn't a substitute for actually being close to someone. day ruined.

i've been thinking about this all day actually, bc i always thought "a friend is someone who i feel comfortable sharing personal things with. that's what closeness is." but tbh i seem to share that sort of thing with almost everyone so now i really don't know how to define friendship. i already had a poor idea of defining friendship in my head due to neurodivergencies and such but i think it's worse now. i also think i've shared some really personal amd vulnerable stuff with people i shouldn't have.

just realised oversharing isn't a substitute for actually being close to someone. day ruined.

the south wales accent in english must be the only accent where "here/hear" doesn't rhyme with words like dear/beer/cheer/etc.

did you know that if you can't drive and want to travel between aberystwyth and camarthen by train, then you have to take one of these two routes that goes out of wales and into england and then back into wales, and will take either 6 and a half hours or over 7 hours, even though it only takes 1 hour and 20 minutes to drive directly between the two towns? did you also know that there used to be a direct line between aberystwyth and camarthen but they closed it in the 60's? this is because the uk sucks and everything is so england-centric.

(the non-highlighted route on the rail maps is the bus route, which takes almost twice the amont of time as driving by car and also i can't use it bc of travel sickness)