blindsided by the realisation that the city i live nearest to, despite being not that large a city by uk standards, would be the second most populous city in the us state my boyfriend lives in and a state next door to it combined

blindsided by the realisation that the city i live nearest to, despite being not that large a city by uk standards, would be the second most populous city in the us state my boyfriend lives in and a state next door to it combined