I feel exactly the same way. The surrender of control for continuous care in a hive drone network is hot, but I also like being me, and my drones like being themselves. So my Network simply offers support and love. I lift some burdens so they can focus and be good little drones while still being them.
When one of my dolls wants to join the Network, we have extensive conversations about the drone they want to be, and design their persona as layer over their identity, rather than a replacement. They get just so invested and into it.
