truly, my life is a slippery slope from falling in love with a drawing of a girl, to falling in love with a particularly venerable bench at the park, and now im having to do the work of figuring out what any of that means. and more importantly, how that meaning overlaps with other people's understandings of love. very important for someone who is trying to love and be loved in kind! (please let me into the superorganism, thanks)