I keep MAL list Anilist relatively up to date, at least with what they have listed. If you friend me you can see some of the gay stuff I read and what I think is good. I'd like to share more of my experience reading that stuff here; reading yuri is cathartic in a way I wasn't expecting, and that brought up a lot of trauma I have associated with high school growing up. Mourning the death of an adolescence that never was is hard.
