shapelessink

Queer artist & writer

  • He/She/They/It

Alexandra/Lexi
MFBC Archival Creature
I write and draw horny freak shit and also stuff that makes you cry - as I am wont to do.
"Can't a boy be confusing?"


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I wanna thank everyone who rechosted my thing yesterday about gender exploration and potentially being perceived as a detransitioner for opening up like you all did.

It was lovely, and every comment and rechost was enlightening. I honestly didn't expect the conversation to go on that long or for it to garner that much attention, but I'm glad that it did.

To be clear, I don't consider myself a detransitioner/retransitioner - still taking HRT and such, just that my comfort with my body has shifted and changed dramatically in the last few years to a point that I am no longer uncomfortable with my body and perceived gender in ways that I was before.

I consider myself non-binary and probably will for the forseeable future - its just one of those things where explaining to certain people (namely some family members) how I related to my gender would be met with at best confused looks and at worst some sort of confirmation that they were right and knew better than me.

The thing is though - gender exploration can be simple things, it can be complex things - all of them are valid. I don't regret the choices I made or the things I've done to get here, how could I? They led me to better understanding myself in really powerful way, and yeah - solidarity to people who do try stuff out and then decide its not for them, or that they want to do something different, or that they have regrets - We're all here figuring this shit out and folks need support either way.


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