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Profile pic and banner credits: sharkaeopteryx art by @superkiak! eggbug by eggbug! Mash-up by me!
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I'm a Vietnamese cis woman born and currently living in the U.S. You may know me from Sandwich, from Twitter or Mastodon (same username), or on Twitch as Sharkaeopteryx. I do not have a Discord or Bluesky account.

Ask me about language learning/teaching, cooking/eating food, late diagnosis ADHD, and volunteer small business mentoring. Or don't, I'm not the boss of you.


I think people deserve to be young, make mistakes, and grow without being held to standards they don't know about yet and are still learning. So, if you are under 22, please don't try to strike up a friendship or get involved in discussions on my posts.


Please don't automatically assume I follow/know/co-sign someone just because I reposted something from them—sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Also, if you think being removed as a follower when we're not mutuals is a cardinal sin, please do not follow me.


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nicky
@nicky

if you see a good post, follow whoever made it. then go to their page and see if they've reposted some other good posts. follow those people. repeat until you've got a healthy timeline. you can always unfollow later of course! but without a recommendation algorithm or anything like that, you have to curate your own timeline. check out tags as well! and most importantly, have fun and be yourself


estrogen-and-spite
@estrogen-and-spite

This is so true but also like, this is super important:

you can always unfollow later of course

There's a site culture around unfollowing and following and re-following here that's different from the rest of the interwebs. Elsewhere it's taken as an insult or hurtful thing but the overall culture around it here is incredibly chill. I think most people understand that because we have to curate our own timelines by who we follow and there's no visible numbers attached to followings so it's less noticeable overall. So like...I strongly recommend "Follow everyone who makes a single good post you like" that Nicky mentioned, and then unfollow if it turns out their content isn't to your tastes.

Also my second piece of advice - top right corner of each posts, three buttons. One of those options on every post is "silence this post." It will hide it from your timeline. If a post is getting shared too much and you're tired of seeing it, or if it's bothering you for some reason, or if it's just about something you don't like, it's a great option.

EDIT: Comment that has useful advice I'm pulling up into the main post, from @Jama

Secondary silence post tip for new people: Click on the time stamp of the original post, then silencing that one. It'll silence all shares and reply shares of that post. If you do it just to a shared copy it'll only silence that shares and any shares of that one specifically

If there's certain topics that you want to avoid entirely, check how to muffle and silence tags in settings, and then muffle (if you want to be able to see but it's a topic that people often fail to TW or just if it's something you only want to engage with when you have spoons) or silence (if you don't want to be reminded that topic exists) all tags associated with the topic you can find. I have that for some tags around topics that I think are important, but need to be able to take a deep breath and opt in before reading them, and it's made my site experience 9000x better. Every site should have that feature.


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in reply to @nicky's post:

Also if it turns out you followed someone terrible by accident, nobody else can see that, and that person can’t even tell if you unfollowed them, so don’t be shy about following people, there’s no real downside!

in reply to @estrogen-and-spite's post:

Secondary silence post tip for new people: Click on the time stamp of the original post, then silencing that one. It'll silence all shares and reply shares of that post. If you do it just to a shared copy it'll only silence that shares and any shares of that one specifically