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bigstuffedcat
@bigstuffedcat

overwhelming to imagine the mental calculus of worrying about fasting during a systematic starvation. keeping tradition alive while still staying healthy; trying to enjoy iftar in the imperial core while knowing your tax dollars abet mass starvation. belated ramadan mubarak and solidarity with palestinians and those fasting everywhere.


bigstuffedcat
@bigstuffedcat

Looked around and found this article about exactly this.

Death ends their misery, but forever denies them the relief that they were seeking. Part of Ramadan’s joy is the act of looking forward: to iftar, the meal that breaks the fast every evening; to Laylat al-Qadr, the night when the first verses of the Quran were revealed to the Prophet Muhammad; to the feast of Eid, which marks the end of daily sacrifice. How do you celebrate the holy month when you fear the suffering will not end?

God prescribes fasting as a means of self-discipline, a way to show Muslims what they’re capable of and to protect themselves from hellfire. But He is merciful; not everyone is called on to fast, especially if doing so causes harm. The Quran grants exceptions to those who are pregnant, breast-feeding, or menstruating, and to people who are travelling, elderly, or ill. Starvation or P.T.S.D. would count as illnesses; fleeing your home would count as travel. These exemptions seem almost absurd, and maybe they won’t matter. Some will choose to fast regardless. Sometimes the best way to forget one pain is to focus on another.


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in reply to @bigstuffedcat's post:

Burying this in the comments rather than rebugging so as to not overshadow this article with my personal experience as a white American:

I went to a school with a lot of Turkish staff. My mom worked there, and she would make a point of handing out water bottles to those directing traffic in the cramped parking lot under the hot Tucson sun. Sometimes the heat broke triple digits, and yet during Ramadan she couldn't get the custodian to take a sip. He was sweating his brains out, but he declined the water in an ordinary way-- as if his hands were just too full today, as if there were no time to put down his stop sign or unused plastic whistle.

Fasting is hard, and that's the point. The Quran isn't asking anyone to die from heat stroke-- but it is asking you to endure a little, to challenge your conceptions of what your body needs. My mom found it unbelievable that he didn't consider that sweltering August to be enough of a factor to claim an exemption. If it were me, I'd consider the surrounding situation too unsafe to take a further risk-- but if I were practicing a centuries-long tradition of self-betterment, or if I had friends and students and bosses who were also fasting, or for any number of good reasons, I might think otherwise.

That's who I'm thinking of as I read "Some will choose to fast regardless."