Possibly the best piece of flirting advice I gave to a friend starting out on the apps was: make it easy for them to say no to you, and make it easy for them to say yes to you

Mutant, librarian, poet, union rabble rouser, dog, Ashkenazi Jewish. Neuroweird, bodyweird, mostly sleepy.
I write about transformative justice, community, love, Judaism, Neurodivergence, mental health, Disability, geography, rivers, labor, and libraries; through poetry, opinionated essays, and short fiction.
I review Schoolhouse Rock! songs at @PropagandaRock
Possibly the best piece of flirting advice I gave to a friend starting out on the apps was: make it easy for them to say no to you, and make it easy for them to say yes to you