that one of the protagonists of The Eating of Names is an uwu bean with damsel in distress vibes while also being 8 feet tall at the shoulder1, probably almost ten thousand pounds, and trained nearly from birth in personal combat.
Arwen Tachht may be more physically strong than their partner Cchaiit, but Ar is definitely the one who would get bridal carried off into the sunset2 and Cchaiit is definitely the one who'd do the carrying.
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This is actually rather short for a varsit Ar's age. Cchaiit is quite a bit taller than Arwen.
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Metaphorically speaking, of course. The anatomy of the varsit species isn't exactly conducive to bridal carrying, and even if it were, the sunset doesn't have the same romantic connotations to them as it does to us.