social media in this sense (including its antecedents of twitter, tumblr, reddit, etc) are more MEDIA than they are social, and a lot of the analysis of why people do or dont stick with a site completely ignore that facet. your site has to essentially replace local news in peoples mind. hell, its not like learning what omelas is is more or less important than knowing every murder that happened in a 30 square mile radius
Taking this further, this is why sites like this have a hard time retaining people that arenât exactly like its test/beta audience (tech-oriented furries/queer tech people/the sorts of people who incorrectly assume all trans girls are programmers because they always end up in places where they meet programmers). Now donât get me wrong, I like this group and hence that has appeal to me, so Iâm here. As a furry these people are always gonna somewhat be my community so thatâs not stuff i donât wanna read necessarily
But imagine youâre like. I dunno. A non furry waiter who mostly knows how to use an iPhone but has no interest in tech or whatever. Imagine cohost (or mastodon, or any upstart social media platformâthe specific site doesnât really matter) as more like a local news station or paper, with all the posts as stories. Why the hell would any story by someone who assumes everyone knows what a user script is be relevant to them? You use the limited discovery tools there and you see the sorts of people who havenât given up on the site, who are disproportionally the sort of people who donât just know what Linux is (already a massive minority) but actually use it. The fact that fan art of Xenia the fox (who I can guarantee you not a single one of my queer coworkers knows about) does well here is a massive tell. Itâs the social media equivalent of wired magazine in 1993.
If youâre a queer person who doesnât care about python or âcss crimesâ and barely knows what homestuck is (again this is most people, including most queer people)âwhat are you supposed to do to get a feed you wanna read? Thereâs a season of rupauls drag race on rn. The drag race subreddit is the number one reality show related subreddit. Itâs like the defining queer monoculture thing, like it or not that. Do you see people posting about it here? (I checked common tags and I didnât). You see some stuff here about baseball because one of the sites founders likes baseball, occasionally, but rarely anything about other sports popular around the world (football of any sort, for example).
I go through every single one of my coworkersâ interests to think if i see posts about that stuff here. The coworker who loves the simsâŚnope. The non furry non binary museum art and classics major who loves witchcraft and plays the bassâŚnope. Any of the college studentsâŚgod no. The title fight loving (non furry) puppygirl in NAâŚnope. Hell I think of my own metamours and meta metamours, literal furries in tech, who have accounts here they donât use, who occasionally say stuff like âoh yeah I gotta use cohost moreâ. But they donât, because on some level they too realize that there isnât much for them here. They donât wanna read about their job all day. Itâs like forcing yourself to read a magazine that doesnât have articles that interest you bc you think its cause is noble.
And the thing is? ALL of the above people have enjoyed some posts on cohost Iâve showed them! All of them thought love honk was hilarious. Iâve sent coworkers some of @shel âs in depth posts and theyâve gotten a ton out of them. Even a magazine you donât read might have some good articles. But a good comic, a good letters to the editor section, and one or two recurring features you like does not fill 80 pages does it now?
My cynical answer for how to fix this is probably not possible with the limited resources cohost has, which is literally paying people to post deliberately to increase diversity. The intitial test user base of this site seeded a culture that fundamentally is not sustainable with its financial model. It needs people that donât know what Linux is, it needs people who wanna post about survivor. It needs more political writers and sports writers and people who donât know what user scripts are and never will

