Also as long as we're talking about how to embrace cringe, I'm gonna encourage you to reject the dichotomy of "bad people who judge you" and "good people who do not judge you". Judginess is not an attribute of bad people, it's more of a cultural phenomenon that all of us engage in to greater or lesser amounts and that we can all work at unlearning. Try experimenting with small acts of cringe and watch yourself surviving judgement by your enemies, and by your friends. Breathe. You'll make it through this.
agreed, and additionally, one way to see that "bad people who judge you" / "good people who do not judge you" is a bad dichotomy to get into is to pay attention as you go about your day how often you judge other people and yourself
Right the people who are like "I'm a good person so I'm incapable of making people feel judged" are . . . extremely uncomfortable to coexist with