feybeasts
@feybeasts

“Fey, why are you so supportive to people you don’t know? Why are you so upbeat? Why are you so positive to strangers?”

Because… I like being Niceys. And it. Feels really nice to be Niceys. And it makes people happy, and people is often me as well :)


feybeasts
@feybeasts

It feels good and fulfilling to just be pleasant to people as a default state of being unless they give you reason not to, and it’s good and fun and makes my heart happy, and I recommend trying it


InfernoAceington
@InfernoAceington

Also I don't know about you but being mean makes me feel bad. It's upsetting. I genuinely don't know how people can be willingly cruel over and over.


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in reply to @feybeasts's post:

being nice to people unless prompted to be otherwise is so so much easier on the mind and makes socializing very fun
No bitching, no being a sour human, no being suspicious of others, just gud vibes. And it doesn't even mean you have to be a pushover either ! Just that your neutral state isn't "unpleasant person"

Exactly! It’s not being a pushover or a people pleaser, but defaulting to “pleasant unless someone gives a good reason not to be” is just… better for the soul, I find. Been a lot less stress in my life since I started making the effort to be that way