If your man:
- has an income of 41 koku of rice
- made a living as a beggar, a ronin, and a dealer in swords
- was twice adopted by samurai of greater peerage and rejected their affection out of guilt
he's not your man, he's mediocre samurai Katsu Kokochi

If your man:
he's not your man, he's mediocre samurai Katsu Kokochi