the regular version of Staxel definitely has a dedicated server, I don't think the CE version does though. (Console Edition, which comes packaged with the game, runs a bit lighter, as it's a PC build of what was released for the Switch; my PC is old but was decent for its time, and I'm better off not running the server but can do single or connect to others just fine, if that gives any indication of how performance might go for the potatoes). Server is in the game files, not a separate install.
SteamDB lists an "Eco Server" app so I'm guessing it has dedicated. It would make sense if it did.
NMS is fun! Or, at least, I had fun. I even did a successful hardcore run (on the third attempt) and I rrrrrrrrarely do permadeath stuff. Not dedicated, though, so the multiplayer could poof someday. Goes on sale a lot. Crossplays.
I'm keeping an eye on Wildmender, dunno why I forgot about that one until now, dunno if it will have dedicated but it looks to be a chill "regrow the world" game, with multi, which I've been looking for since encountering the idea in modded minecraft years ago. Has a demo out now.
Marvellyous mentioned Valheim might fit the chill builder vibe on my other post. Unsure about dedicated server. I've been cautiously watching that one due to how big the hype spike was when it released, and how I never hear about it anymore. (And I'm trying to stop buying so many games that are Better With Friends until I get some Friends Who Play The Same Games)