i keep coming back here going "i wish i didn't have to do this again" but the reality is things are mostly just getting worse for my partner and i. i still don't have a job after a whole year of unemployment. my unemployment benefits are going to be running out in about a month and a half. money that is owed to me hasn't been paid and at this point i've accepted it never will. my partner is disabled and he cannot go back to work until he gets the appropriate accommodations.
on top of all this we keep getting set back with surprise charges like having to replace our water heater last month, owing taxes, grocery prices here getting insane, among other things.