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MOOMANiBE
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I can't help but think how true this is for the internet as a whole. We've proven so conclusively over the last 10 years, it feels like, that armed with the proper tools and language, marginalized groups will instantly turn those tools and language on their own in a misguided attempt to maintain the moral high ground, or to cynically attempt to self-protect by socially ousting anyone less cynical than they are.

and of course this leads to exactly what you'd think it would - social spaces where to hope is to be a contemptible fool. Easier to write long, lecturing posts about why everyone else should have expected failure from the beginning. Idk. I can't not tie this all together in my head, from puritanical tumblr sex-policing to twitter brigades over "problematic" writing because evil characters aren't explicitly punished, to, yes, the almost eager way many other marginalized people and queer devs now seem to root for the failure of each other's communities now that we're all split apart. I can't not see it all stemming from the same sort of vibe. It's been with us for a long time.

I think, more than anything else, it's a good reminder to me that cynicism isn't an end-all be-all. That it may keep me apart from bad actors, but it'll also prevent me from ever seeing - or supporting - the good ones. I fall into this trap a lot! But I really feel that all-consuming negativity is something to be worked against, not a coherent life philosophy.


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in reply to @MOOMANiBE's post:

there is a needless desire to treat everything you don't fully grasp with as a sort of vigilanteeism sponsored by the general public interest; as if we're hunting down war criminals in a post-bellum period

as if more destruction is any sort of way to rebuild in the aftermath of conflict

we woke up, realized the internet was shitty; then doubled down. true progress is built on fostering community, tooling better norms, and putting them into practice. (although don't take any of this as an endorsement of liberalism by any means! but being out for blood 24/7 whenever something seems like it's not 1:1 with where someone thinks it should be is no way forward)

I really feel this with cultural appropriation in particular. it would be hard to find a cultural phenomenon more dependent on context than the stuff that falls under the umbrella of cultural appropriation, but it's treated as if "aha I recognize this, and the only acceptable response is unequivocal condemnation."

a related weird observation i have is that like, if you didn't end up hearing much of this type of content, and if you didn't interpret content that was neither this nor that as this (e.g. Tropes vs Women, the mother of it all, was a comprehensive overview of just how omnipresent each harmful trope is — which is neither exploring feelings nor checklist policing), that whole phenomenon felt like a pure strawman installed by the reactionary culture warriors