My stepdad, who passed away many years ago, was not very expressive and hard to get to know. He was also ridiculously competitive, to the point that he wouldn't even let a child win at a dice game. I eventually got to know him better, and I even spoke at his funeral, but it was touch and go with him for a while. This is a story I would have told at his funeral, had I remembered it, in the moment.
