trying a new thing where i say out loud to myself "oh, wow, that person needs to relax" when i see inconsequential scorchingly stupid takes phrased argumentatively instead of even rising to the bait of putting it into words to complain abt on a locked twitter. no progress to report so far. but one day i will fix my entire brain & heart in this manner until i don't even care when people are really wrong like just incredibly wrong about stuff that doesn't matter even when they're really wrong about it. one day? i will be the relaxed one actually & i will be so relaxed i won't even notice when other people have to relax
