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in reply to @renkotsuban's post:

They know what they're doing tbh. You can say "I don't want to come off as one of THOSE people but" all you want but you knew you were doing exactly that and that's why it's an anonymous ask lol

This shit always makes my blood boil. Fuckin' assholes.

I know I said like, at the start of all this, "it's important to talk about" when you apologized for bringing it up, but are YOU doing okay? Having to defend yourself with stories of sexual assault is fucking exhausting, and you should NOT have to do that. :/

I listen to Kpop and have seen (largely white) Western fans exhibit similar fetishistic attitudes towards everyday Korean people right to their faces. This behavior was nasty then, and it's nasty now. People need to stop making excuses for it.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that shit at your workplace, too. Nobody ever deserves to be sexually harrassed at their job.