Thinking about how certain people are expected to suffer at least a little bit, work at least a little bit extra, be frustrated at least a little bit, just so everyone else can ignore them comfortably.
I think everyone would benefit from watching this Alt-Right playbook (or read the transcript, also in the link), just to keep it in mind. What's "not so bad" that I'm expecting other people to shoulder so I don't have to think about it?