So a thing that I indirectly detected the other day was a complaint that Cohost had implemented "fun features", like .beat timestamps ahead of crucial accessibility features like dark mode. And others have pointed out that these are a drastically different level of complexity, which is true.
But there's something more fundamental at stake, which is that no one should ever have their happiness held against them. The impulse is ultimately the same one that complains when poor people eat a fancy meal, or when disabled people spend their limited spoons on something other than working or socializing. And my take is, that impulse is bad and we should stop