I wanted to personally acknowledge that you put in a lot of work advocating for autistic people in another post. I don't feel like you should have at any point apologized for your frustration, and OP was not arguing any of their own points in good faith. Frankly, OP's retorts were not coherent, good faith, or tangential so I'm disengaging, but I see you, and hope you're hanging in there.
honestly its just one of those things im used to. outside of being autistic, im a trans woman first and foremost, and so in many communities (yes, even among other autistics), im usually the only one who actually knows what the social issues people are speaking on mean.