srxl

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panicattheopticon
@panicattheopticon

ok so what’s the game plan for getting all the bigoted shitheads off this website?

i don’t mean what staff is going to do about it, i mean how do we, ourselves proactively expunge this from the site culture, genuinely. i am strategizing here beyond just “report it when you see it” instead of just letting the best accounts on this site get run off by a handful of people you’ve never fucking heard of with rotten attitudes

even if that’s just us doubling down on being sternly loudly inclusive to draw them out and report them (as they seem entirely incapable of keeping their terrible opinions to themselves)

(ps cohost doomers buzz off, i see you using this as “see i was right!” takes and that’s extremely gross. this isn’t about your hot takes.)

at least if we’re being very open about this shit not being tolerated and talk about it, we can take the heat and not force the burden on the most vulnerable on this site.

idk i’m just very frustrated and by the time i see this shit go down it’s too late, i want to proactively push for this site to be better.

if there’s one thing staff could do, the invite chains of early bluesky where you could see who invited who let people wipe out entire lineages of trolls/bad actors. not sure how you do that here now that it’s open signup but some kind of tool to find clusters of assholes would really help


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in reply to @panicattheopticon's post:

I'm not sure there's much to do aside from just being loudly against the typical white nonsense, and keeping an eye on the bitches who get upset about that. They have to be made to feel unwelcome. And it can't just ethnic minorities* like me doing it, a significant portion of the gringos on this website need to start doing it too.

*Just realized how much I don't like referring to myself that way, ugh

I don't know if there is much we can do. Racism and racist attitude are a systemic problem; it's not just some rotten people with bad attitude, it's a whole culture and way of acting that was created by our institution. If what I said is correct, then it means 1) it's not a Cohost problem, it's a societal one and 2) we can't fix a systemic issue with individual action. Cohost is not a community. We don't control the culture beyond what we already do.
The even more depressing truth is, if I am correct, then it means user of colour will never escape racism in online spaces open to all (maybe there could be an online space that limit who get in specifically to avoid that problem, but I will stay agnostic on whether that solution could work, and simply point to the fact that Cohost is not that space). It wouldn't be enough to prevent the racist from coming, because racism is more than just individual actors.

It's depressing shit. It's why I haven't talked much about the topic, because as much as I believe it is important to contemplate despair, I have a higher value which is "don't undermine anti-racist activist" (it should be "help anti-racist activist", but I don't know how to do that, so it's "don't undermine" for now). Hence why I keep my mouth shut.
But I might be wrong. I mean, I hope I'm wrong. In any case, if there is something we can do, then count me in.

i don’t think there’s a magic fix, i just think we have to do that, actively establish the anti racist culture in the site, which is more so what i’m trying to strategize on

while i hear you and where you’re coming from, it’s all kind of background noise context to the “ok, what now” i’m aiming to discuss

anyway, when in doubt, i guess i’ll just read more books for inspiration and seek out material that illustrates how this was achieved in offline spaces over the past several decades