couple days late on it but happy 5 years of time passed since i tried to come out to one side of my family and got the attempt completely ignored, with not a shred of acknowledgement that it ever happened in those entire 5 years. little did i know back then that in 2 years time, their response to a global pandemic would rip the curtains off their little show and clearly demonstrate that they simply do not live in the same reality that i do. had i known that back then, i probably wouldn't have bothered. at least i now know beyond a shadow of doubt that they arent worth a second of my time, though.
family is chosen, not inherited. don't choose people who don't want to choose you too.