Every time someone says “let men be masculine” I give Iron Man a fresh coat of baker miller pink paint
now THIS is the "tony stark is female coded" agenda at work! /joke
(though thanks to at least TWO alternate universe female tony starks existing in at least two marvel comics, i headcanon at least marvel comics' tony stark as a trans woman who uses (s)he/(h)er pronouns, but that's for another day. and her name is still tony stark, as (s)he simply didn't see the point in changing (h)er name if (s)he's part of a corporate tech empire.)
